This 60s Bombshell Lost the Love of Her Life Endured the Death of Her Brother, Her Story Photos
She rose to fame in the late 1950s, becoming one of the most successful female vocalists of all time, selling over 80 million records. With a voice that defined a generation, she dominated the charts and won hearts worldwide. But behind the dazzling stage lights and chart-topping hits lay a life filled with heartbreak, family interference, and unimaginable tragedy.
Born into a hardworking Italian family in Newark, New Jersey, her path to stardom was mapped out from a young age. Her father, a strict and determined man, saw her potential before she even understood it herself. He became the architect of her success, pushing her toward a career in music with relentless ambition. While his guidance secured her rise to fame, it also stripped her of freedom, leading to years of personal struggle.
Her love for music began early, inspired by her father, who played the concertina at family gatherings. By four, she was already performing for audiences, captivating them with her natural talent. As a teenager, she gained experience on the television show Startime Kids, but her early solo recordings failed to make an impact.
Just as she was about to abandon her dream of music for a scholarship at New York University, everything changed. In 1958, at her father’s urging, she recorded Who’s Sorry Now?—the song that would launch her into superstardom. It sold 1.5 million copies, catapulting her into the spotlight and marking the beginning of a career that would span decades.
She followed up with an unstoppable string of hits, including Stupid Cupid, Lipstick on Your Collar, and Where the Boys Are, cementing her status as one of the most influential female artists of her era. Hollywood soon took notice, and she starred in musical films like Follow the Boys and Looking for Love.
But while the world saw a radiant young woman living a glamorous life, behind closed doors, her father’s control dictated every aspect of her existence. His influence didn’t just shape her career—it shattered her personal life, most painfully when it came to love.
A Love Story Stolen by Family
At just 18, she met Bobby Darin, a gifted songwriter with charm and ambition to match her own. Their first meeting was tense—Darin, confident and brash, stormed out after a disagreement over a song. But as they continued working together, their professional relationship blossomed into a romance.
Their love was young, passionate, and full of promise. But her father saw it as a threat. He believed that Darin would derail her career and went to extreme lengths to separate them.
One night, when he discovered the couple’s secret plan to elope, he chased Darin out of a rehearsal at gunpoint. Fearing for Bobby’s life, she had no choice but to stay away.
Heartbroken, Darin moved on, eventually marrying actress Sandra Dee in 1960. But she never truly got over him.
A Love Lost Too Soon
Darin’s success skyrocketed. By 24, he was a legend with Grammy Awards, an Oscar nomination, and four million-selling records. But he lived under the shadow of a lifelong heart condition caused by childhood rheumatic fever.
Knowing his time was limited, he famously said, “I have to be a legend by the time I’m 25 because that’s how long doctors gave me to live.”
In 1973, Darin died at the age of 37 following complications from heart surgery. She was devastated.
“I never felt quite the same about anyone the way I still feel about Bobby to this day,” she later admitted.
Decades later, their story took an unexpected turn. In 2016, the love letters she had written to Darin resurfaced. His family had put them up for auction, and a devoted Darin fan initially outbid her. But instead of keeping them, the fan returned the letters, believing they belonged with her.
Holding them again was bittersweet—a reminder of a love that was never fully realized, stolen not just by fate but by the decisions of those who controlled her life.
A Nightmare That Changed Everything
If losing Bobby Darin wasn’t painful enough, life had even greater hardships in store.
In 1974, while staying at a Long Island hotel, she endured a horrific attack. A man broke into her room and raped her at knifepoint.
The trauma was overwhelming. She withdrew from the public eye, struggling to process the nightmare she had endured. A month later, she adopted a baby boy, Joey, whom she later described as her saving grace during her darkest period.
But the struggles didn’t end there.
A botched nasal surgery left her unable to sing for seven years, silencing the very thing that had defined her. The world that once adored her seemed to move on, and she faced years of isolation, trying to recover both physically and emotionally.
It took multiple corrective procedures and relentless determination before she could perform again. But just as she started to rebuild her life, another devastating tragedy struck.
The Murder That Shattered Her Family
In 1981, tragedy struck again when her younger brother, George Franconero Jr., was murdered in an execution-style killing. On a cold morning in New Jersey, as he scraped ice off his car windshield, he was shot.
She was blindsided.
Only after his death did she learn of George’s alleged ties to organized crime—something she had never known. The grief was unbearable, sending her into a downward spiral.
“I couldn’t accept my brother’s murder,” she later confessed. “That was just heartbreaking.”
The loss pushed her into a deep depression. Overcome with despair, she attempted suicide in the early 1980s, overdosing on sleeping pills.
Her struggles with mental health led to multiple hospitalizations, but with the support of family and therapy, she slowly found the strength to carry on.
Taking on the role of matriarch, she cared for her late brother’s wife and children, as well as her aging parents and her adopted son.
Searching for Love in the Wrong Places
After losing Bobby Darin, she sought love elsewhere, marrying four times—but none of her marriages lasted.
Her third husband, Joseph Garzilli, was a writer, and her fourth and final husband, Bob Parkinson, was a producer. Despite her hopes, every marriage ended in divorce.
“If I had put as much thought into selecting husbands as I did with Vegas openings, I would have been fine,” she once joked.
She also admitted that her success often became a source of tension in relationships.
“I spent most of my life apologizing to men for my success,” she reflected.
A Legacy That Endures
Now 87, she remains one of the most iconic female vocalists of all time, with a legacy that spans decades. With over 80 million records sold, she shaped the music industry and defined an era.
She chronicled her journey in two memoirs: Who’s Sorry Now? (1984) and Among My Souvenirs (2017), with additional volumes in progress.
Beyond her musical achievements, she became an advocate for victims’ rights, mental health awareness, and veterans’ support, using her platform to help others.
Though retired, she enjoys a quiet life in Florida, reflecting on an extraordinary journey of resilience, survival, and strength.
“For the first time,” she shared in 2022, “I have free time to do only what I want.”
Despite everything she endured, her fans continue to celebrate her.
“You are just as beautiful as ever,” one admirer wrote.
“She’s so gorgeous and what a classy lady,” another commented.
Her story is one of triumph over adversity, love lost and found, and a voice that refused to be silenced. Even today, she remains a testament to the power of perseverance—and an icon whose legacy will never fade.